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Making Friends in France as a Korean

1 July 2026 11 min readJARI 에디터
Making Friends in France as a Korean

friendship is something you make happen

Arriving alone, it's easy to feel the French are hard to approach. In truth, "French-style" friendship is simply slow to start but very durable — once the door opens, it stays open. The trick is to multiply the opportunities instead of waiting. Aim for two circles at once: the Korean community, for support and your own language, and local connections, to settle in and improve your French. Your best asset? You have what many French people want: Korean language and culture. It's a magnet for meeting people.

start with JARI

Before looking elsewhere, your home base is right here on JARI:

  • Community — the heart of the network. You'll find 모임 (one-off meetups) run by other members, 동아리 / clubs that meet regularly (sport, language, hobbies), and a forum for your questions. Join an existing group, or create your own in two clicks.

    The winning move: create or join a club (동아리) on JARI Community around a passion (hiking, K-pop dance, games, cooking). A regular meetup builds friendships far more reliably than a one-off event.

🇰🇷🇫🇷 Franco-Korean language exchanges

The most efficient shortcut: Koreans and French people meet over a drink to practice both languages (often 40 minutes in French, 40 in Korean). Relaxed vibe, everyone's there for the same reason. Start by launching or joining a "Franco-Korean exchange" 모임 on JARI Community — you reach exactly the right audience. As a complement, these groups also exist on Meetup: Kore (France-Korea friendship), Gengoffee Coréen, Olala Korea. The Cercle Franco-Coréen is another meeting spot.

cafés des langues and polyglot nights

No need to know anyone there: language cafés (cafés des langues) gather people from all backgrounds. You get a sticker with your name and the languages you speak or want to learn, then you go talk to others.

  • Polyglot Club Paris runs free evenings several times a week.
  • Many universities have an open "Maison des langues". Find and share these events so you don't miss any nearby.

    Great if you're shy: the whole setup is designed for approaching strangers, since everyone comes for exactly that.

apps to get started

To warm up between outings:

  • Tandem — a one-to-one language partner (you teach Korean, they help with French).
  • HelloTalk — the largest language-exchange community.
  • Bumble BFF — the "friendship" version, effective in big cities. But for local and Korean-friendly, the JARI Community and forum remain the most direct entry point.

    Common sense: for a first online-met meetup, pick a public place (e.g. a Korean café found) and tell someone close to you.

the Korean Cultural Center and cultural life

The Korean Cultural Center (20 rue La Boétie, Paris 8e) offers Korean classes, workshops (calligraphy, dance), a library, exhibitions, concerts and films. You'll meet both Koreans and French fans of Korea. To stay in the loop, follow Korean events, and find Korean spots (cafés, marts, restaurants) — all natural meeting points.

the Korean community: your network

  • Korean churches remain a pillar, even for non-believers: meals, mutual help, practical info.
  • The JARI Community forum is the modern hub for questions, outings, clubs and a helping hand — in Korean, among verified members.
  • On the JARI Marketplace, the flatshare (colocation) section is also a way to meet (living with others builds a first circle).
  • Student? Reach out to Korean student associations and your school's BDE (student union).

through leisure, sport and studies

The most natural path to lasting bonds is sharing a regular activity:

  • Join a club (동아리) via JARI Community, or a local association — see our Leisure, sport and outings guide.
  • The gym and group classes create familiar faces you keep running into (see Gyms in France).
  • French lessons do double duty: you improve and you meet people. Find a bilingual teacher via JARI Pro Services (French lessons category).
  • At school or work, your first network is your classmates and colleagues: say yes to coffee breaks, lunches and afterworks.

the codes that make it work

  • Follow up. After a nice first meeting, suggest the next one yourself. Not following up often reads as a lack of interest.
  • Be patient. Friendship takes time to set here; early reserve isn't rejection.
  • Dare to speak French, however imperfect: the effort breaks the ice.
  • Know the codes (la bise, tu/vous, invitations) — see Etiquette and social codes.

common mistakes

  • Staying 100% in the Korean bubble (KakaoTalk only): reassuring, but you improve neither your French nor your local network.
  • Waiting for others to make the first move.
  • Never following up after a first meeting.
  • Skipping regular activities: friendship comes from consistency, not a one-off event.

FAQ

Do I need to speak French well already? No. Language exchanges, apps and JARI Community also work in English and are there to help you improve. Where do I meet other Koreans? JARI Community first, then the Korean Cultural Center, churches, and Franco-Korean Meetup groups. Is it expensive? JARI Community and Calendar, most cafés des langues and basic apps are free. I'm shy — where do I start? The forum and meetups on JARI, then a small in-person format (café des langues, a workshop at the Cultural Center).


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